Today I bought something new.

I had been eyeing off this beautiful colourful teething jewellery for a few weeks at the market. It is designed to look great on but also provide your child with relief when teething. Little Fearse loves chewing on my necklaces, teething or not. The business is run by a local Mum. She sells her product through Facebook and the market. It ticks a lot of ethical buying boxes, except the fact that a) it’s not a necessity and b) it’s new. Little Fearse isn’t even teething at the moment. (I’m still a little traumatised from her last bout of teething, to be honest, which left us all sleepless – and helpless – for over a week.) I bought a teething bracelet without even really thinking about it. It was a strange anomaly in my personality – some kind of minor blip in the system. I have spent the rest of the day feeling guilty.

This is also on top of (full disclosure) the breaking of my no “new” clothes rule – I purchased a pair of jeans at the op shop on Saturday (half price purple tag got them down to $3.65) and a shirt at the market today ($1). I have kind of evened that out by donating a pair of jeans and shirt from my wardrobe. I still feel a little alarmed at how easily I slipped back into old habits.

Purchasing something new didn’t feel good and it didn’t give me any buzz. Finding the vintage shirt at the market for $1 gave me a buzz…but it still didn’t feel good afterwards. I’m a little disappointed in myself, to be honest.

These are minor purchases that really don’t mean much in the scheme of things – except that I feel I’ve let down our project a little.

On the upside (because it’s always good to end on an upside) we discovered the joys of frozen watermelon today thanks to a comment on our last post from Verity. If you love our blog, I reckon you will enjoy Verity’s blog The Happy Rebel. She is also working on reducing her consumption, but in a much more challenging environment. Read! She’s very inspiring.

I hope those of you in Victoria are surviving the heat okay.

Mama xo

What to BNN do when a fridge goes boom.

In one of our very first entries we shared our concerns about our not very old but not very healthy fridge. I purchased the fridge as a factory second (new, but with a dent in the door) quite cheaply about 6 years ago. It was an ‘off-brand’ fridge, which didn’t mean much to me at the time. I had made a deal with my Year 9 Geography class that year. We were all writing ‘green’ goals each week – long term and short term. I had told them about my low energy rated, very old and leaky fridge. I’d purchased it as a student for $100. I couldn’t have afforded a new fridge when I purchased it, but I knew it wasn’t great for the environment. In my first year of teaching I made the promise to my Year 9 Geography class that I’d save that year to buy a fridge with a high energy rating. So I did. I purchased the seconds fridge from a store in Brunswick which specialised in white goods with minor aesthetic faults. They were almost all off-brand white goods, inexpensive but with contemporary energy and water ratings. It seemed like a good deal at the time.

Part of the reason this fridge didn’t last as long as I’d have hoped was because I moved several times in the last 6 years. Every time you move furniture and electronics there is the risk of damage. Fridges, like pianos, don’t like being moved. Ours started making strange noises after the second move.

The other reason the fridge didn’t last long was explained to us when we purchased our new (to us) fridge a few weeks ago. Off brand, inexpensive fridges are designed to last ‘for the term of your lease’. They are made for students, people who are transient and don’t want to be saddled with moving their white goods with each new share house or rental. It made me incredibly sad to hear that, and even sadder that I’d fallen for the trap. These fridges look good on the surface. They’re inexpensive and, on the surface, environmentally aware. In reality they’re poorly made, “disposable” and an incredible tax on our environment and our landfill.


One Friday afternoon, a few weeks ago, I opened our fridge and realised that the entire top shelf was filled with mould. This literally happened over night – the mould that is, we knew the fridge was on the out and out for at least a year. Even though we knew in January that this as a likely scenario, and lots of people had given us suggestions then on how to approach this issue, we were totally unprepared.

In our old life we would have jumped in the car on Saturday morning, driven to our local shopping centre, gone into a major electronics store and purchased the best priced new fridge we could find, to be delivered that afternoon. (Admittedly, I would have spent Friday night scouring reviews on the web and searching for the best rated product.)

In our new life I searched the web for a reconditioned fridge store in the south eastern suburbs. There was one, Blue Ribbon Appliances in Frankston, and it happened to be open on a Saturday. We could only hope that it was a reputable business and had decent fridges at decent prices. We didn’t have a lot of options. We arrived at 9am Saturday and were greeted by an amiable elderly gentleman who explained their stock and left us to explore and choose. We were already delighted to not be pushed or harassed as we browsed. While we checked out the stock he put through a phone call to the owner to check if he could deliver that day. He could. We had lots of choice in a fridge of the size we required. What’s more, they only stocked fridges they could rely on as they guarantee them for 12 months.

By Saturday afternoon we were installing our new fridge. It’s not particularly old, it’s a great size and energy rated. We paid half what we would for a new fridge, including delivery and taking away the old fridge to recycle. Honestly, it was a pleasurable shopping experience. I don’t say this lightly.

The fridge did have a minor fault – the alarm started going off every 6 hours (including overnight). The owner of the business, who is also the fridge mechanic, came out and repaired it immediately. If the same thing happened with a new fridge you’d possibly face dealing with the manufacturer in a lengthy game of ‘whose fault?’ in order to get the fridge repaired or replaced. True, it might not have happened in a new fridge, but it’s fixed and working beautifully now. The outcome suits us.

Any previous year we would not have taken the bet on a reconditioned fridge. Time will tell if we’ve made a good purchase or not, but right now we feel very positive about how this problem was solved.

[As a side note, this was a great opportunity to clean out the fridge and declutter the stuff that had accumulated on top of and on the sides of the fridge.]

Questionable birthday decisions.

Sometimes we like to pretend that you’re here to read about things like how we choose to parent our daughter (so exciting and original!) or what books I like to read that you should, too, or uhh other stuff that is mostly irrelevant to our BNN challenges. Thanks for indulging us.

We often find we don’t have a huge amount to say about Buying Nothing New. This is probably a good thing. A great thing. It means that we are overcoming our challenges with more ease – it’s becoming second nature to solve our issues by purchasing nothing, borrowing something, adapting, mending, making or (as a last resort) buying second hand. But this doesn’t make for good blogging.

It was my birthday last week. When my parents asked me what I wanted I thought long and hard. I had been researching about the Kitchen Aid Mixer and whether it might be a worthy addition to my kitchen. It is possible to buy them second hand, though they don’t depreciate much and in Australia they are very expensive. I’ve really done a lot of research and I did consider asking Mum and Dad if they’d help me buy one second hand for my birthday. I still feel so undecided about it, though, and recently my brother and his partner suggested I borrow theirs for a little while to see how much I use it and if I like it. I think this is a really great BNN way to make a purchasing decision.

What did I ask for then? Honestly, I’m to sure how this gift sits with BNN. I feel a little uncomfortable about it, but I’ll explain the process we went through. I have an old doona that has lost most of it’s feathers. When I say ‘old’ I got it for my 21st birthday, so it’s not terribly old (I’m not terribly old, really, after all) and it was expensive at the time. I feel it should have lasted longer than it did. But it didn’t. I know that I could get it refilled, but I feel that it is an expensive solution that is also temporary.

As the weather has cooled down at night the three of us in our bed are less than cosy. We use no heating at night and no matter how many bed socks or singlets or blankets we add we’ve all been so cold and none of us have been sleeping well. So I asked my parents if they would give me a new doona for my birthday.

Mum and I went shopping – we ended up choosing a woollen doona by MiniJumbuck*. As an Australian brand using Australian wool we felt it was hard to go passed. I also like the fact that though the wool may get flatter over time it won’t lose feathers. Buying this doona first hand is the first factor that I felt uncomfortable with. I guess this probably counts as a personal purchase of something new, because really I made the decision and although I didn’t pay for it, I asked for it. Technically or not, this is a purchase on our behalf.

The second factor that made me feel uncomfortable was that we bought a king size doona when my previous doona was queen size. This means new covers. We ummed and aahed over what size to get, but honestly – BP and I are both really tall and we share a bed with a growing toddler. I want this to be THE doona we have for years and years to come. I don’t want to make the decision in five years time that it isn’t big enough. To solve the issue of doona covers we managed to purchase two second hand covers on eBay for $28. We don’t love the patterns, but we’re not that particular about our bedroom decore anyway, so at that price (and second hand) we’re happy to have them for the term of their natural life.

The old doona is going to be relegated to our spare bed for now as it sure beats the polyester summer doona in there currently (which will be donated).

It’s not a win – win situation, but it’s not a complete loss either.

Mama xo

* I know it’s weird to link a product website on a blog that is discouraging consumerism, but honestly – to me this seems like a perfect option if you are Australian and you want to buy ‘locally’. None of the other doonas were made here or used quality local products. This reduces the miles the product has travelled, if nothing else.

When we start buying again.

Next year, if we decide to end our BNN adventure, we are going to completely change our buying habits. If we decide to buy new things from now on we are not going to buy the best bargain. We are not going to buy the cheapest thing we can and we are not going to get sucked in by sales that are not really offering us a good product or a good price.

I want to buy clothing made from quality materials. When possible I want it to be locally or hand made. When we can’t do this we will continue to buy second hand. We will have less clothing, but it will be better quality.

I want to buy the best quality home wares. I want to buy kitchen pans that will last forever. Knives and forks that are sturdy and quality and lovely to hold. We will have less home wares, but it will be better quality.

When we start to think about new carpet and new curtains and other new things around our house we will search for Australian made, hardy and quality goods. We will have to save for longer and hunt harder to find things we can afford that meet our quality requirements. We will need to prioritise and be willing to wait for the right things.

Purchasing things we need will take time and research and sometimes a lot more money than before. If we shop this way we won’t be able to buy on impulse. All of our purchases will be considered.

In an ideal future, this is how I want us to be.

Mama xo

Small decisions.

Weirdly, we haven’t blogged a lot lately about buying nothing new. It’s funny how starting out this project we had so many concerns about challenges that might arise. None of those things we worried about have been an issue so far. The things that trip us up tend to be smaller things, the day-to-day. We have conversations often that go a little like this:

Mama: “We need to start brushing Little Fearse’s tooth soon.”

BP: “But we don’t have a tooth brush for her.”

Mama: “Are we allowed to buy one?”

BP: “I don’t know, are we allowed to buy one?”

I mean, ultimately, of course we’ll buy Little Fearse a toothbrush if we need to. But finding a common solution to simple issues is a regular conversation starter in our household now. I think this is a really good thing. We purchase things only when there isn’t an alternative solution. For instance, some people use a bit of baking soda on a face washer to clean their babies teeth. This is probably a good option for us and something we would not have researched if we weren’t trying to be more aware consumers.

Other minor issues that we have had to discuss include purchasing:

  • dish washing brushes
  • plastic wrap
  • baking paper
  • smoke alarm batteries
  • tampons and pads.

We intentionally didn’t add a ‘consumables’ clause to what we’re allowed to purchase, because we believe that we don’t need to use all the consumables we buy. We avoid using plastic wrap and in most circumstances can use a lidded container instead. We have decided that we won’t purchase any more of this when we’re finished the current roll.

Make Do and Mend Year‘s recent silicon baking sheet disaster made me realise that with a bit of forethought we could have dealt with the baking paper issue. We may have a little hunt for one of these second hand before we run out of baking paper, as I use this quite a bit.

We will not replace our dish washing brush, instead we’ll use a coth as others do. We have reusable / machine washable cloths and (due to a well meaning house guest) an abundance of disposable sponges.

We will definitely be replacing the smoke alarm batteries. No ifs or buts.

Tampons and pads is something that BP wisely has no opinion on. Many people have asked me about this and although I am aware of the many alternatives I’m not ready to start exploring them yet. I’d love to hear from people who have looked at other less disposable options.

Buying Nothing New, or becoming a more aware consumer, isn’t just about the big purchases or the major items that cause large and obvious impacts on our environment. It’s about all those little day-to-day things that we often don’t think about. It’s those things that are filling up our rubbish bins and toppling into our landfill more than anything else.

Mama xo

A few tiny steps.

We had two gift vouchers remaining from Christmas that were due to run out in May – one for a popular stationary store and one for Myer. We ummed and ahhed over what we should spend them on, as we couldn’t allow them to go to waste. Of all the ideas the only ones we had that seemed to make sense, or were justifiable, were to spend them on Little Fearse.

At the stationary store we purchased her a new lunchbox. She didn’t need a new lunchbox. The one we purchased at the op shop is still going strong. We were just at a loss – we didn’t need anything at the shop. It was an empty kind of purchase and it felt like we were cheating on BNN and ourselves.

At Myer we bought Little Fearse a winter jacket (much more expensive than we’d usually get) and a winter top that will probably fit her this winter and next. Of course both items of clothing are ridiculously cute. I did get some pleasure out of this purchase because they were things Little Fearse will get a lot of wear out of. Although we can easily purchase clothes for her second hand it’s nice to have the opportunity to buy her something special. It sort of tickled the consumer in me in the way the previous purchase hadn’t.

Being at the shopping centre (for only the second time this year) was unlovely. The visuals there are like an assault if you haven’t been for a while. When you’re at a shopping centre already it becomes kind of second nature to pick up something here and something there. Since we’re not buying anything new we ended up purchasing coffee and snacks we didn’t need.

My tuna hand roll came in a plastic box with a little plastic tray for the wasabi and a tiny plastic bottle of soy sauce, held together with a rubber band. I felt really guilty about how much packaging was involved in my purchase of one tiny hand roll. I wished I’d had the forethought to at least get them to leave off the plastic container. They had paper bags, which would have been marginally better.  Feeling ill at ease about the amount of stuff left over when I’d finished eating I tucked the container into the bottom of Little Fearse’s pram figuring I’d try and find a way to reuse some of it later.

The wind was ferocious. While we were unloading the pram the wind stole the sushi box and rubbish and whipped it off across the car park. “Oh no!!”  I cried. Big Poppa got ready to chase after, thinking it was his steak that had flown away, or one of Little Fearse’s new purchases. As I saw the box sadly crushed under a car wheel then lift over the edge of the upstairs car park wall I said “Never mind, it was just my sushi box.” I felt kind of relieved in a disgusting way. I no longer had to come up with some fancy way to reuse it. And I felt guilty, too. If it had been one of our purchases or even a $5 note we would have worked hard to retrieve it. Instead I just watched the little box float away.

I wish it was easier – that we didn’t have to work so hard to be good and ecological. Isn’t that terrible? I know that it is true, though, that if it were easier we’d all be much more willing to recycle more or purchase organic food more often or try harder to reduce our waste. It makes me sad to know that even though our little family feels like we’ve come such a long way we still have so much (SO MUCH) further to go. We’re really just a few steps along the pathway to becoming more aware people.  A few tiny steps.


Mama xo

When the consumer in me just doesn’t know how to quit.

Seven years ago, in the flush of a new romance with a renowned sneakerhead I walked into Footlocker and on impulse laid down $200 of my very hard earned cash (I only earned about $100 a week outside of study support) and bought a pair of bright white Air Force 1s. Quite honestly, I had never stepped foot in Footlocker before meeting BP. We were in there looking for shoes for him – something that happened waaaaaay too often – and suddenly some weird, perfectly designed combination of the right tempo in the music, the right lighting in the shop, the right sales person paying just enough (but not too much) attention in the background and the aforementioned sneakerhead romance and I was parting with my rent money savings for a pair of sneakers. Wha? What just happened?

Air Force 1 high tops take a fair bit of breaking in. There is a period of ankle rubbing that you need to get through to make them comfortable. I just didn’t have it in me. I’ve worn them here or there to a gig with BP, or once, memorably, when I dressed up as a student for a school charity day. That was the day one of the students was overhead saying “Damn, Miss F looks freeeeeesh!” Yes, that day.

They’ve spent a lot of time in the wardrobe in the last couple of years, only to be pulled out recently by Little Fearse who is going through a shoe phase (which involves eating shoes, not wearing them – that phase is yet to come). BP made a rare ultimatium – “Wear them or sell them”. So, today, I wore them.


They hurt my ankles AND my toes. And they’re just not the kind of get up you wear to Mums group at a play centre. Why can’t the rational me give up these shoes that I bought on impulse seven years ago but have never enjoyed wearing? Is it that I just don’t want to admit I was wrong when I bought them? Or do I like what they signify – a simpler time in my life? Or do I really like how they look but not how they feel? Or am I still holding on to their monetary value even though that $200 would have been well spent on something else by now, if not these shoes?

What do you do when the consumer in you just doesn’t know when to quit?

Mama xo

How do you make the decision to purchase something new?

How do you decide to buy something new? Buying nothing new has helped me to examine my own internal processes when it comes to consuming. Before 2013 buying something new would come from a variety of thought processes.

First, I need it. I need it and I need it soon. I can’t search for it, I can’t buy it second hand. I need to have it now. This would usually be the course taken for something I needed by a deadline – for school, someone’s birthday, for a wedding etc. This is the thought process that led me to make one of my final 2012 new purchases – my exercise pants. My old ones had gone missing and I needed them for Mums and Bubs fitness. For some reason I needed black, full length yoga pants. My light blue tracksuit pants? No! My grey tracksuit pants? No! My 3/4 length black yoga pants? No! Of course, I found my lost pair a few days after my purchase.

Second, I saw it. I liked it. I want it. Sometimes I’d get it straight away. Sometimes I’d check out something similar in a few places. Sometimes I would stop myself making the purchase initially, then go home and think about it constantly until I came back for it. Sometimes I’d make myself wait until the next day and then, if I still wanted it, I’d get it.

Third, I’d buy it on impulse. I was walking through the shops and I liked it and I bought it. I wasn’t looking for it, I hadn’t made the decision to go to the shops for it. I just liked it. These were often the things I didn’t wear or use. Those things that got tucked away and eventually donated.

Finally, my fourth decision making process, I’d needed it for a while. I was willing to wait until the ‘perfect’ or ‘cheapest’ or ‘best’ was available, but I’d saved or allowed the money for it and I was consciously making a decision to buy this thing.

This week I made the decision to buy something new – reusable breast pads. I made it through an entirely different process. I knew it was something I could buy locally, from a small shop, run by a person I admire. It meant I would no longer need to use a disposable version of the same thing. It is something I’ll be able to use for a long time as it is good quality and easy to care for. It is also something that would be difficult to get second hand. I spent some time searching sites like Ebay to confirm this (although I did bid on some unused but second ‘ownered’ on Ebay to reduce the number I’d need to buy new). I am still deciding whether I will make this purchase. I also need to investigate whether I could make them myself, though I don’t have the materials I’d need to experiment with at hand. This is the process that I hope I will be able to go through each time I make decisions in the future to buy something new.

Here are some guiding questions that I think will help me with the decisions I make in the future to buy new items.

  1. Is there somewhere I can get it that will benefit my community?
  2. Is it something that will make a positive or negative impact on the environment?
  3. Is it something good quality that will be usable for the period of time in which I will need it?
  4. Is it something I will be able to pass on through donation or sale when I am finished with it, or is there a way I can dispose of it ethically?
  5. Is it something I can buy second hand?
  6. Do I really need it? How much do I really need it?
  7. Could I make it myself with materials I already have?
  8. Is there something I already own that could serve the same purpose?

Mother Nature Network speaks of this same idea, though suggests that there are just three questions the conscious consumer need ask before making a purchase. This is worth a read if the topic interests you.

Mama xo

Mama’s library

I have a constantly rotating library of books. Due to my former (cough cough) addiction to buying second hand books I have a great collection of recent literature and 20th century classics with a particular focus on literature by women. I read book reviews regularly and try to stay aware of what’s good right now and what’s been good in the past. My Mum is also a voracious reader and will often lend or recommend books, as is my sister “in-law”. It might not be a particularly diverse collection, but it is a good quality collection of books.


Recently I went hunting for some books to lend to a member of my Mum’s group. I don’t really know her style yet but I do know that I have a good enough collection to have something in there that she’ll like. I realised that a lot of my favourite books are out on rotation. It makes me really happy to know that my books are read and read and read again. I have only very rarely had a book not returned, or returned so damaged it can no longer be read. It’s a risk I’m willing to take. I don’t think that a book is created to be read once then squirrelled away onto a shelf to gather dust. I never read a book twice. There are just too many wonderful books in the world to go back on one, no matter how much I’ve loved it. Passing it on to others is the perfect way of giving that book life over and over again.

Sometimes my books make it very far away. A friend will lend them to a family member or another friend. Even though this does make me feel a little anxious at times, I also recognise that it’s a good thing. It is a way of someone new being introduced to an author or a story that I’ve loved.

I’m not sure that the authors of these books would like to know that one purchase is being read by seven, eight, nine, sometimes ten people. I guess they’d like to sell ten copies of the books instead. Ecologically, this system makes buying books worth my while and it means I get to share the special place these stories create in my heart and mind with many other people.

Do you lend your books? Do you have a particular person you borrow your books from? I find it really interesting hearing how others feel about this issue, because I’ve found most people to be either very passionately for or against lending their books to others.

Keep reading!

Mama xoxo

PS For those who wanted to know how I went with my book voucher dilemma – I bought Light Between the Oceans and NW. I have leant them out already without reading them. I’ve been sadly stuck on Gone With the WInd since NOVEMBER. It’s beginning to drive me crazy. I can’t think of a time a book has taken me this long. Going back to work and having a non-sleeping now toddler gives me very little reading time. Can’t wait for the school holidays to rediscover my reading self.

PPS I have broken my book embargo already – I bought Roald Dahl’s Switch Bitch from an op shop on Friday for BP. I also have plans to buy two books for Little Fearse for her birthday with our remaining voucher. I’m getting this and this. How can I resist?!

I bought something I didn’t need.

I went on a wild op shopping adventure through the ‘posher’ suburbs of Melbourne today, hosted by a friend who knows the area well. When I say “wild” I guess what I really mean is “whirlwind” because it didn’t end with us drinking tequila shots or buying ridiculous taffeta ball gowns. I think those days are over for me. At the end of the day we came home to our beautiful daughters, not a bad trade off.

I was pretty sensible today. I focused on stuff I needed (clothes for work and clothes for Little Fearse in size 2). I managed to find something from my list – a three photo frame – still in its packaging. I got Little Fearse a lovely stuffed Peter Rabbit for Easter. Apparently we are the kind of family who gives Easter gifts. I don’t think we were going to be that kind of family until toady when I went rabbit crazy at the op shop.

So, I was going along nicely buying things we needed or kind of needed or sort of needed and then I came across this…


Now, I expect you to be underwhelmed by this fruit bowl. I’m clearly some kind of tin weasel peckerwood looney because when I showed this to my friend and to BP they both made the same ‘meeehrgh’ sound. I think it’s sensational. All glassy and flowery and ready for my fruit. And it sure beats the very blah modern green ceramic bowl I currently have. I dig this fruit bowl. I’m going to see this fruit bowl first thing in the morning and feel satisfied.

See,I knew I’d never make it as a minimalist. Stuff makes me feel things.

All glassy eyed with consumerist goo,

Mama xoxo

PS Yeah, I’m categorising this as art. What you going to do about it?