On the way home from family day care yesterday Little Fearse started a conversation with her BP about our house and whether it was also our home. Later, on the way to Granny and Papa’s for dinner this happened:
Lil Fearse: Bye bye Daddy’s house.
Mama: Bye bye home.
LF: Daddy’s house, LF and Daddy and Mummy home.
M: That’s right, it’s our home.
LF: Go Papa’s house.
M: Yes, Papa’s house and Granny’s house. It’s also their home.
LF: NO! Papa house. Granny house. NOT home!
M: Well, yes, it’s their house and their home, too.
LF: NO NO NO NO NO! Daddy’s house Papa and Granny home.
M: Is our house Papa and Granny’s home, too?
LF: Yes. Mummy and Daddy and LF and Papa and Granny home.
I think it is a most remarkable thing that our two year old wants to distinguish between a house (structure) and a home (heart). For our last year or so we have been working on making this house a place to put our hearts. We are getting there. When our family came for LF’s birthday on Saturday many commented that they were starting to see the difference. There is less stuff and more room for that cosy, homey feeling. It is so restful and calming. It makes me happy.